How to Enjoy Being Single
You’re single… Now what? Whether it’s a recent break up or you haven’t been in a “so called” committed relationship, you should enjoy being single. There are many opportunities that await you.
Be independent; find out who you are without someone else. Discover what you like to do and what makes you happy. Go on adventures, be selfish, and give as much as you can at the same time. Take the opportunity to learn and grow, love yourself first so you can give that polished person and love to someone else when the time comes.
Find Your Passion For Life, Not For the Opposite Gender
Discover new talents, hobbies, and passions. Have you ever wanted to start a business? Learn a something new; like photography? Scuba diving? Rock climbing, or anything else for that matter? Well, now is the time to do just that.
Find something you love to do that makes you happy. Excel at it; learn all you can about it. Spend your time immersed in something and become the best you can at it.
You have all of the time in the world to focus on the opposite sex. But how much time within a span of 80 years are you going to be able to focus on yourself completely? Take advantage of this short amount of time that you have been given.
Live in the NOW
Stop planning for the future, stop worrying about something in reality you have no control over. You don’t know what is going to happen tomorrow, you may not even know what is going to happen 10 minutes from. So stop planning.
Live in the moment, enjoy the moments, and learn all you can in that specific place and time. Take time to notice the little things, while holding your niece or nephew notice the way the corner of their moth turns up to a smile when certain things happen; live in the now, appreciate the now.
Go places that you have never been before. Learn about a different culture and experience that different culture. Realize that the world is bigger than your tiny human self on this large planet we call Earth. Go out and discover new places and meet people in different walks of life so you can discover new things about yourself.
Take these adventures while you can, while you don’t have to have an agenda of another human pulling you.
Be Selfish, AND Selfless
We are humans, and as humans we are selfish by nature. Right now you can be selfish without anyone really saying anything to you. All you have to worry about right now is you. There are no commitments but to yourself, if you want to pack up and leave one day; you can.
At the same time be selfless, because you aren’t focused on another person specifically; give some of that energy to other people. Little acts of service or big acts of service. Find out that you have much more to give than you may have ever thought you did.
Find Yourself, and Love Yourself
Find out who you are, find out what you love to do, find out what you have to give. Become the good you want to see in the world and believe that you are good enough for the world. Gain the confidence that you are a special human with a special purpose.
Accept who you are and love it. Come to a self-realization that you can love yourself, and you need to. Love yourself so that one day you can in turn love someone else.